Bill O’Reilly Is Forced Out at Fox News – The New York Times

I have watched Bill O’Reilly many times over the last 20 years. I have actually liked him, but not with sexual harassment charges on him I do not care for him. It also looks like Fox does not want him anymore. Today Fox News forced Bill O’Reilly out. Also many sponsors have withdrawn their funds. Seems like Bill is going down a rough road. Well we all have to suffer the consequences from our mistakes.

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Although Republicans have been vowing to repeal Obamacare since it was signed into law seven years ago, the failure of the American Health Care Act to reach the House floor for a vote Friday was a particular setback to House Speaker Paul Ryan, who was spearheading the legislation and the vote count. The House Speaker…

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Are you the prophet of self-doom? Or do you let it slide and carry on regardless? Charles R. Swindoll said, “Life is 10% of what happens to you and 90% how you react to it.” If we focus on a negative outcome in something in a negative fashion, you will subconsciously be asking for more […]


Their is a lot of negativity in life. Trust me I know it. I read this and need to pass it on. We all need to remain positive, because without positive attitude everything will start to dwindle.

When we get negative things tend to go wrong even more. That is because our mind believes nothing good will happen. We have less motivation on daily task. I will give an example… When I am in a positive mood I tend to come home and do a little cleaning, cook dinner, and even pay bills when needed. Although when I have a bad day and in a negative mood all I do is sit in front of the TV, get on Facebook, and have a easy dinner. You may be wondering how this applies to you? Well think what you do after a good day and a bad day. We are all different some drink, some listen to heavy rock, some just need alone time. Whatever you do on a bad day can get a lot worse if you get trickling down into depression. I have learned from my life challenges that we need to stay positive, especially how we talk around other people. A challenge for you and everyone is to eliminate all negative words and thoughts. The more positive you are the more positive the people around you will be.

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So much in life is so complicated. This song is so right in many ways. It may be a girlfriend/boyfriend, a best friend, or a family member. There are times in life that it feels that the feelings are no longer there.

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Family Conflict: Will Find Solution in the New Year

I have been living with my parents for too long. It use to be nice. They would listen to my opinion, let me help them, and even let me live a private life; but that has all changed in the last six years. I feel like a mother does when her child grows up and leaves the nest. I feel like I am not needed or wanted anymore. I do not believe that is a fact though. They do need help but I need my independence and freedom. Maybe when I leave they will know I am not always there to help, maybe they would call one day and ask.

I wrote this letter below this year to express how I felt. I wanted to share this because everyone needs to realize the way you act influences others around you. When you are an inspiration in a person’s life, rather a parent, a manager, or a best friend, you can really hurt them when you turn negative towards them. When you have problems that are really hard on you talk to your friends, family, church, or therapist. It does really help. Be aware of how you speak. We need to see the positive side of the day. For example today it is cloudy and raining with a chance of freezing rain. This is a fact so do not look down on it like you cannot go out and do yard work. You may wounder why I say this? i say this because my neighbor chopped down a dying tree between our property line. He is out there right now, in the cold and rain, sawing the tree, now that is being optimistic. If you think you cannot do anything because it is cold and raining then you are a pessimistic. If you believe you need a jacket and maybe an umbrella to go outside then you are a realist. It is better to be a realist that leans to optimism because you need a good balance between being positive and reality. Six years ago I use to have that good balance now I am mostly a realist. I want to go back to being the way I was. Read the letter and let me know what your opinion is.

You are wondering why I refuse to speak to you and I am avoiding you. The reason is to avoid conflict and negativism. I am always argued with a fact or statement I say. I could say, “The sky is blue.” You would argue, “It is cloudy out.” Negativism is a negative or pessimistic attitude. A tendency to resist external commands, suggestions, or expectations, or internal stimuli, as hunger, by doing nothing or something contrary or unrelated to the stimulus. (Random House, Inc, 2015) This causes conflicts and it hurts me emotionally and mentally. This is just a minor thing, because I have come to a conclusion in my teen years that someone will always want to argue with another person. I did not expect it would be you arguing with me stating a fact.
The main reason I decided never to be with you again is because I am not wanted with your family. I do not have a family in this house, I have no home. I have thought when I was in Harrisburg that I would be alone for a long time. I did not think it was forever and you and Gene would abandon me. I have nights I cry myself to sleep because I am all alone. I then remember the family I have, that are not blood, but are truly family. I have a brother, a little sister, a mom and dad, a quarky old guy, and a sister going to college. They feel like family. We have different opinions. We voice are opinions, but we do not yell at one another because we are different. We joke around and if one gets offend by a joke we apologize and never joke about it again. We do not require explanation of everything in our lives. We have our privacy and we respect each other by not intruding into another’s privacy. This is not special it is common in a family relationship it is known as respect. Respect is to refrain from intruding upon or interfering with. (Random House, Inc, 2015)
What you need to know is… I would never refuse to watch a show if I just did not like it. I have done that every day. Common sense says if a person watches something he doesn’t like and refuses to watch a particular show that person must have an issue with that show. The answer to the question you probably have, yes I have a mental issue with Heartland. I have had nightmares just seeing the credits play and I left the room. If you wonder why, well join the club. I will never understand why Heartland is more important than I am. You made your choice and now you will have to live with it. One day I will be out of this state and never let you know where I am. That will be the day I will have the first day of peace in my life.
Feeling Lonely and Rejected,
Ryan Carson


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True Love is So Simple

We all believe true love is with the one we will fall in love with for the rest of our lives. I do not believe that is the truth. I believe true love is much more simple to find, I believe most of us have found it since the day we were born. Love is not something that grows inside us because we came from love. God created this World with love and created Man and Woman with love. We should always love one another.

Ephesians 4: 31-32

” Let all bitterness, and wrath, and anger, and clamour, and evil speaking, be put away from you, with all malice: 32 And be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ’s sake hath forgiven you.”

A Child Loves Their Parent

When a child is born it shows love for the mother and father. It does not start there though. It begins in the mother’s womb. The child is one with the mother and grows very close to the father. If the father is not around rather if it is due to a job, separation, divorce, or a disagreement in a relationship the child will grow close to the mother and not the father. If there is a lot of arguing, fighting, or disagreeing while the child is still in the womb it can make the child very distant from the parents. In any of these scenarios the child still loves their parents. It is just showing the love for their parents is what gets difficult.

According to the American Psychological Association, 40 to 50 percent of couples get divorced in the United States. This is very hard on the child. When the child is still young, below their teen years, it can cause problems latter in life. It may seem they accept their new family, new home, new friends; but things do change in life and when the child reaches their older teen years or later they may wonder what would have happened if their parents had never been divorced. This is where the blame game comes in to effect. The sad part is there is no one truly to blame, but the child won’t learn that till their adult years. That maybe a little late.

There are children that live in good homes rather if their parents got divorced or never had been divorced. One way is a divorced family can keep consistent contact. The parents need to swallow their pride and think of their children. It is like going to work and putting up with an arrogant boss. The problem is if you quit having family you cannot go get another family, at least not your true family. You quit your job there is always another one out there. Parents do not think of yourselves all the time, think what you can do for your children so the grow up with a better life than you did. If you do they will always be there for you when they reach adulthood, have a job, and have their own home. Maybe one day you will move in with them.

Love of Husband and Wife

I have heard before that love is love. I do not believe that is true. The love between a man and a woman is a love that grows. It does not have a bonding together like a child and his/her mother. I do believe we all have a soul mate that God wants us to be with in life. I believe there is a true love that God has us destined for in our life. It seems like this day and age we do not meet our soul mate or at least do not take the opportunity to take a move when we are given it.

 Proverbs 18:22 

[Whoso] findeth a wife findeth a good [thing], and obtaineth favour of the LORD.

Just because we do not meet our soul mate does not mean we do not truly love the one we are with. We are suppose to love one another as ourselves.

I Thessalonians 4:9

But as touching brotherly love ye need not that I write unto you: for ye yourselves are taught of God to love one another.

Maybe if we could show love to each other married couples will last, families will stay close, friends will be friends, and there would be more happiness and peace in the World. So the next time you see a person who needs help, has a question, or maybe someone who wants to help you thank God and be happy.


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Do you think Hillary Clinton is good for President? Well listen to Donald Trump. He may be a jerk, but his mind makes him a great President. He has the passion for always doing great. He wants to make America a better place for you, for me, and for himself. Yes, I said himself. It is in his best interest to put more money in our pockets than to take more taxes. He will do better in business after he leaves office because the more money one has in their pocket the more they will spend. It is up to you what you spend your money on. Who would not like a brand new car, upgrade their computer, buy clothes for their kids, or not to have to worry if you are going to have enough money to pay the next month rent or mortgage. Trump can fix all these issues we have because he is a business man. Put aside the fact that he is an egotistical, sexist, jerk and think would he be better to make our country move forward than Hillary Clinton. If you answer yes vote for Trump. I hope you vote for who you believe is the right President, but I also hope your conscience does not bother you over the next 4 years. We will see.

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We All Need To Feel Wanted Since Creation

It is in our human nature to have the desire to be wanted and needed. When we have these feelings and they are fulfilled we are happy; when we do not have them fulfilled we become sad. Why do we have this nature? Well it goes back to the day of Creation by the God Almighty.

In The Beginning…

Some people believe in evolution and others, like myself, believe in Creation. I am not going to take evolution into consideration today because everything has happened for a reason. God was lonely a long time ago. Some believe millions of years ago and others thousands of years ago, but He decided to create the Universe. He created the Earth, the water, the animals, and man in six days. He even could tell that Adam, man, was lonely and created woman, Eve. God has feelings and that is why we do as well.

Genesis 1- 2:7

In the beginning God created the heavens and the earth. The earth was without form, and void; and darkness was[a] on the face of the deep. And the Spirit of God was hovering over the face of the waters.

Then God said, “Let there be light”; and there was light. And God saw the light, that it was good; and God divided the light from the darkness.God called the light Day, and the darkness He called Night. So the evening and the morning were the first day.

Then God said, “Let there be a firmament in the midst of the waters, and let it divide the waters from the waters.” Thus God made the firmament, and divided the waters which were under the firmament from the waters which were above the firmament; and it was so. And God called the firmament Heaven. So the evening and the morning were the second day.

Then God said, “Let the waters under the heavens be gathered together into one place, and let the dry land appear”; and it was so.10 And God called the dry land Earth, and the gathering together of the waters He called Seas. And God saw that it was good.

11 Then God said, “Let the earth bring forth grass, the herb that yields seed, and the fruit tree that yields fruit according to its kind, whose seed is in itself, on the earth”; and it was so. 12 And the earth brought forth grass, the herb that yields seed according to its kind, and the tree that yields fruit, whose seed is in itself according to its kind. And God saw that it was good. 13 So the evening and the morning were the third day.

14 Then God said, “Let there be lights in the firmament of the heavens to divide the day from the night; and let them be for signs and seasons, and for days and years; 15 and let them be for lights in the firmament of the heavens to give light on the earth”; and it was so. 16 Then God made two great lights: the greater light to rule the day, and the lesser light to rule the night. He made the stars also. 17 God set them in the firmament of the heavens to give light on the earth, 18 and to rule over the day and over the night, and to divide the light from the darkness. And God saw that it was good. 19 So the evening and the morning were the fourth day.

20 Then God said, “Let the waters abound with an abundance of living creatures, and let birds fly above the earth across the face of the firmament of the heavens.” 21 So God created great sea creatures and every living thing that moves, with which the waters abounded, according to their kind, and every winged bird according to its kind. And God saw that it was good. 22 And God blessed them, saying, “Be fruitful and multiply, and fill the waters in the seas, and let birds multiply on the earth.” 23 So the evening and the morning were the fifth day.

24 Then God said, “Let the earth bring forth the living creature according to its kind: cattle and creeping thing and beast of the earth, each according to its kind”; and it was so. 25 And God made the beast of the earth according to its kind, cattle according to its kind, and everything that creeps on the earth according to its kind. And God saw that it was good.

26 Then God said, “Let Us make man in Our image, according to Our likeness; let them have dominion over the fish of the sea, over the birds of the air, and over the cattle, over all[b] the earth and over every creeping thing that creeps on the earth.” 27 So God created man in His own image; in the image of God He created him; male and female He created them. 28 Then God blessed them, and God said to them, “Be fruitful and multiply; fill the earth and subdue it; have dominion over the fish of the sea, over the birds of the air, and over every living thing that moves on the earth.”

29 And God said, “See, I have given you every herb that yields seed which is on the face of all the earth, and every tree whose fruit yields seed; to you it shall be for food. 30 Also, to every beast of the earth, to every bird of the air, and to everything that creeps on the earth, in which there is life, I have given every green herb for food”; and it was so. 31 Then God saw everything that He had made, and indeed it was very good. So the evening and the morning were the sixth day.

Thus the heavens and the earth, and all the host of them, were finished. And on the seventh day God ended His work which He had done, and He rested on the seventh day from all His work which He had done. Then God blessed the seventh day and sanctified it, because in it He rested from all His work which God had created and made.

This is the history[a] of the heavens and the earth when they were created, in the day that the Lord God made the earth and the heavens,before any plant of the field was in the earth and before any herb of the field had grown. For the Lord God had not caused it to rain on the earth, and there was no man to till the ground; but a mist went up from the earth and watered the whole face of the ground.

And the Lord God formed man of the dust of the ground, and breathed into his nostrils the breath of life; and man became a living being.

He gave us all we needed when He created Adam and Eve, what has gone wrong.

A Story In The Holy Bible That Did Not Happen On Earth

When the Earth was created Heaven and Earth were perfect, but with time change happens. Lucifer, “mourning star”, sinned in Heaven and was cast down to Earth. Now this implies that Creation had already happened. So it could have happened on day eight or hundreds, even thousands of years later. We just do not know. What we do know is why Lucifer was cast out of Heaven and what he did on Earth to cause sin.

Lucifer was cast down from Heaven to Earth because he was full of pride because of his beauty, wisdom, and perfection. He was and no longer is known as Lucifer he is now Satan, “adversary”.

Isaiah 14: 12-17

How you are fallen from heaven,
O Lucifer,[a] son of the morning!
How you are cut down to the ground,
You who weakened the nations!
13 For you have said in your heart:
‘I will ascend into heaven,
I will exalt my throne above the stars of God;
I will also sit on the mount of the congregation
On the farthest sides of the north;
14 I will ascend above the heights of the clouds,
I will be like the Most High.’
15 Yet you shall be brought down to Sheol,
To the lowest depths of the Pit.

16 “Those who see you will gaze at you,
And consider you, saying:
Is this the man who made the earth tremble,
Who shook kingdoms,
17 Who made the world as a wilderness
And destroyed its cities,
Who did not open the house of his prisoners?’

Ezekiel 28: 11-19

 11 Moreover the word of the Lord came to me, saying, 12 “Son of man, take up a lamentation for the king of Tyre, and say to him, ‘Thus says the Lord God:

“You were the seal of perfection,
Full of wisdom and perfect in beauty.
13 You were in Eden, the garden of God;
Every precious stone was your covering:
The sardius, topaz, and diamond,
Beryl, onyx, and jasper,
Sapphire, turquoise, and emerald with gold.
The workmanship of your timbrels and pipes
Was prepared for you on the day you were created.

14 “You were the anointed cherub who covers;
I established you;
You were on the holy mountain of God;
You walked back and forth in the midst of fiery stones.
15 You were perfect in your ways from the day you were created,
Till iniquity was found in you.

16 “By the abundance of your trading
You became filled with violence within,
And you sinned;
Therefore I cast you as a profane thing
Out of the mountain of God;
And I destroyed you, O covering cherub,
From the midst of the fiery stones.

17 “Your heart was lifted up because of your beauty;
You corrupted your wisdom for the sake of your splendor;
I cast you to the ground,
I laid you before kings,
That they might gaze at you.

18 “You defiled your sanctuaries
By the multitude of your iniquities,
By the iniquity of your trading;
Therefore I brought fire from your midst;
It devoured you,
And I turned you to ashes upon the earth
In the sight of all who saw you.
19 All who knew you among the peoples are astonished at you;
You have become a horror,
And shall be no more forever.”’”

Ezekiel has a message. The Son of man is Satan. God sends Ezekiel a message telling him that Satan was perfect one day, then he changed. God found violence in Lucifer and cast him down from Heaven. He became evil.

It is like yin and yang. Where there is good there is evil. I have pondered this since I became a Christian when I was 12 years old. Can good exist without evil and can evil exist without good? It took me over a decade to figure this out and accept it. In Chemistry there is up to eight electrons on an element. An electron like Lithium (Li) is unstable and can give up an electron to combine with another element. An element like Argon (Ar) is stable and will not combine with another element. Now elements like Carbon (C) can go either way because they only have 4 electrons. Now you may wonder where I am going. God is like Argon. He is full of good electrons. Lucifer was like Carbon he had a choice, had strong good elements around him, but went the wrong way. We are like Lithium from our first day we are born. The one electron we have is Faith. We need to attract some electrons like us to build stronger and as we get stronger we will become stronger than Satan. The reason being we may build strong enough to have seven electrons and still feel weak, but God can give on of His electrons to get us through the hard times.

Are We All Wanted?

If you ever think you are not wanted then think of God, pray to God, read your Bible. He wants all of us. He does not want anyone not to go to Heaven in the end. If you think He does not want you that is the devil deceiving you. There are many days I feel alone, unwanted, then I think of God and I feel like I am needed again. Everything that God does gives me peace. It does not matter rather it is rain or shine, snow, fire, flowers, birds, or spiders it all touches my soul. I have even accepted death. When I know a person and I know they are saved and going to see God I am sad and happy. I am sad they are no longer with me, but I am happy they are in a perfect place, no longer suffering on Earth. Do you believe in the afterlife? Do you believe in Heaven and Hell? It is true rather you believe it or not. Have you been saved in Christ? If you have not do you wish to give yourself onto Him? if the answer is “Yes” please say this prayer:

               “Father, I know that I have broken your laws and my sins have separated me from you. I                        am truly sorry, and now I want to turn away from my past sinful life toward you. Please                      forgive me, and help me avoid sinning again. I believe that your son, Jesus Christ died for                    my sins, was resurrected from the dead, is alive, and hears my prayer. I invite Jesus to                            become the Lord of my life, to rule and reign in my heart from this day forward. Please                          send your Holy Spirit to help me obey You, and to do Your will for the rest of my life. In                          Jesus’ name I pray, Amen.”

Evolution Definition-
Creation Definition- the Creation, the original bringing into existence of the universe by God.
Genesis 1-2:7, The Bible Gateway, The History of Creation
Isaiah 14: 12-17, The Bible Gateway, Fall of Lucifer,
Ezekiel 28: 11-19, The Bible Gateway,

Ty Beanie Babies For Sale

I have some collectible Ty Beanie Babies for sale and cheap. They have not been played with, but have gathered some age. Check these out and let me know if you would like one. I am also going be blogging He-Man toys here soon. It will be by next weekend. Keep an eye out and if you want to look closer like my Facebook Page.


I am getting more Beanie Babies added to be sold. If you want to check them out before anyone else go to my eBay.

First I want to remember 9/11. Since tomorrow is the 15th anniversary of this tragedy I want to mention I will never forget what happened and who was lost. I was at work that mourning at Burger King in Camp Hill, PA. I was going to college and it was my day to open. I was in the break room when I saw the news come on and show the World Trade Center. I started crying and my heart was sadden. I told my manager and he came back, saw the news, and told the rest of the crew to come back. We told the customers what was happening at the time. When it was officially called an act of war Burger King closed for the day and we went home to be with our family. Unfortunately not everyone got to see their family that day so tomorrow make sure you remember all who were lost that day and lost in the war. Now let’s have a moment of silence. “……..”

Alright now let’s get down to some deals. I have posted on eBay many Ty Beanie Babies. I am going to share them here for you.


 Ty Beanie Babies 10 Years “Dippy”

  • Official product from Ty’s wildly popular Beanie Babies Collection
  • Look for the familiar heart-shaped tag that means you’ve purchased an authentic Ty product
  • Handmade with the finest quality standards in the industry
  • Collect them All!!!
  • Ages 3 and up


Ty Beanie Babies 10 Years “Bearon”

Ty Beanie Babies – Bearon – 100 Years of Flight – 8 Inches Tall Plush


  • Date of Birth: October 3, 1990
  • Germania the Bear (German Exclusive) Ty beanie baby is retired and rare
Date of Birth March 16, 2002

A beautiful Irish green and soft. Does he have the luck of the Irish? Find out get him before he is gone, maybe I will keep him.



TY Beanie Babies Freezie, 2005, 3+, Boys and Girls

Honey, it’s cold outside! Freezie, an 8 happy face snowman, is wearing a red and white spotted cap, and a red, white and green scarf. All the fun of a snowman, without the chill!



Ty Beanie Babies Garfield Season’s Greetings, Boys and Girls, 3+

For over 25 years Garfield has been everyone’s favorite fat cat, and now he’s available as a Beanie Baby! Our 8 Garfield is ready to welcome in the season, wearing his green hat with red and white striped trim and matching scarf. Buy as a set with the matching Beanie Buddy!

I have more to share with you. Please follow my blog and keep an eye on my Make A Bid tab in the upper right hand corner. I am going keep updating it often. If you are looking for something make a comment and I will let you know if I have it or might be able to get it.

Stopping Wrong-Way Drivers |

LACKAWANNA COUNTY — Could a system that detects wrong-way drivers now being used in Rhode Island be put into use in our area? Newswatch 16 traveled to Rhode Island to find out.

I was watching the news this afternoon and they showed how Rhode Island solved the problem of wrong way drivers. Rhode Island setup up a new system going up an off ramp to the highway. It now has a motion detector and can sense the vehicle approaching it. When a vehicle is going the wrong way a whole bunch of lights go off and the State and local police get notified for an emergency response. There has been no vehicle accidents since this has gone live in Rhode Island. I think this was a genius idea!

Now it is up to us! Every state has problems with vehicles going the wrong way. We need to spread the word. The Federal Government funds the states when it comes to improving the highway. I am from Pennsylvania and  for decades there have been repairing the highway. I say get the safe signs up to save a life. What do you think? Should a life in your State be saved? Maybe even your own? Please share, comment, and like to make this go viral. Also go to the link below and share it as well. Let’s keep driving safe.


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Battles Uphill And Downhill In A Day, But Leveling Out At The End

We all have new challenges everyday, week, or month. Life can get hard and frustrating, but we need to take the challenge and stay open minded or we will lose before it even begins. I started today a little rough, had an ongoing challenge, and finished the day in a good mood. I want you to finished your day happy. Here is my day and how I overcame obstacles.

Failure to Get Connected

landscape sunriseI have had problems for three days with my WIFI. I had it for about three years and keep it busy. The first day I was not sure it was the WIFI so I did some troubleshooting and eliminated everything besides WIFI. I made my mind up the next day, which was a Sunday, I was getting a new router.

I live in the middle of no where and my phone carrier provides my DSL. They do not set-up your network for you, but will help you over the phone. They need to provide the format for the router I was installing. Since it was a Sunday no one was there. I had to wait till today, Monday, to contact them. I worked till 3 PM and they closed at 4 PM. I had a friend call to get the WIFI to connect to the internet. They got that accomplished by 11 AM. I had to work with the WIFI so it would recognize all devices on the network. Everything is working great now no problems. It feels great to accomplish a set goal and overcome a challenge. It ended a challenging day pretty good.

Problems At Work

The beginning of a new week is never the best thing when going to work. When I walked in and my manager told me I had to clean, white glove check clean, I was a little down. Do not get me wrong I do not dislike cleaning, I just do not like high expectations. This job was for a inspection and I definitely have never like them.

I set my routine for cleaning. I got rid of what was not necessary, threw away anything that needed discarded, whipped down tables and equipment to remove any excess debris or dust, and then used foam alcohol to clean the tables and debris as well as get any residual debris. It took two and a half hours to get everything done, but felt good at the end.

Struggling With Complicated Job

Well after everything was done my boss gave me a job. I did this job before, but is has Sunrise sky cloudsbeen almost a year. It is also a touchy job. I cannot talk about much, but let’s say it is like a recipe that you cannot adjust the temperature of the oven, change ingredients, or put the recipe together anyway you want just the way it calls for. I do testing and this job needed done a certain way and it kept messing up. I finally caught the knack, but did not get much done.

Day Is Over And I Am Happy

Even though I have had problems today and over the weekend I am pretty happy. After dinner today I went outside and I saw the sunset. It made me think of a poem I learned when I was a kid. I was inspired by that sunset to write this blog to let you know that not everyday is a perfect day, we all have struggles, but the day comes to a close and God is there for you, He is always there.

Sunrise, Sunset

by Emily Dickinson

I’ll tell you how the sun rose,–
A ribbon at a time.
The steeples swam in amethyst,
The news like squirrels ran.
The hills untied their bonnets,
The bobolinks begun.
Then I said softly to myself,
“That must have been the sun!”

But how he set, I know not.
There seemed a purple stile
Which little yellow boys and girls
Were climbing all the while
Till when they reached the other side,
A dominie in gray
Put gently up the evening bars,
And led the flock away.

Source- Poetry Pages: I Will Tell You How The Sun Rose

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Nightmares Come Back To Haunt Me

Do you ever have bad days, eat late, or watch scary movies? If you have you probably have not slept well or have had nightmares. I have been having nightmares on and off for the last couple weeks. I mentioned a few months ago about having nightmares. That was the first one since I was a child.

Is There A Cause Of Nightmares For Adults?

dark-woods-nightmareI have been wondering this for weeks. I keep Googling nightmares and I haven’t found much until today. I found out from WebMd that nightmares are not frequent in adults. There is actually only between a 2% and 8% chance that adults have nightmares.

I am learning that late night snacks, antidepressant, non-psychological medications, and narcotics can be associated with nightmares. I have seen a couple areas that might be causing my nightmares, but I thinking the late night snacks is what may be causing it.

I have been going to bed an hour early every night because I have to get up two hours early in the mourning to be to work. The afternoons I have dinner after 4:30pm I tend to have the nightmares, when I have dinner before then I sleep better and more peaceful. I have been refraining from snacking before I go to bed because that may cause the bad dreams as well. My dad told me before that he had bad dreams when he ate heavy foods before he went to bed.

My Solution

I am thinking on how to solve this. I want to have dinner by 4:30 pm. Also I am looking for ways to eat healthier that is not really expensive. If your body is fighting to digest, then your mind can create almost anything in a dream or nightmare. I am also trying to find ways to eliminate stress or deal with it. I have had a lot of stress in the last few years. I think it may be getting to me. WebMd suggest yoga as a way to deal with stress. I have taken a class before in the past. I think I need to start practicing what I have learned in the past. Yoga is good, it gives you peace. If anything everyone should practice meditation. It is so easy. Find a peaceful place you find safe, some meditation music, a yoga mat, and sit on the mat, turn the music on, close your eyes, and clear your mind.

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The Perfect Holiday Dinner To Me

I have been through good holiday dinners and bad ones. My problem is I believe that holiday dinners should be the “perfect” dinners of the year. So if that means putting one’s pride and arrogance aside then so be it.

The Perfect Thanksgiving Dinner

I have always loved Thanksgiving since I was a child. It means plenty of thanksgiving-brownscombegreat food, football, and NASCAR. When I grew up and was interested in buying Black Friday became a big interest. I love the deals and since online shopping has great deals as well it makes Black Friday even easier.

I believe the perfect Thanksgiving Dinner is when the family gets together to help prepare the meal. It is such a big meal there are many things that can be done like preparing salads, cutting veggies, preparing deviled eggs, setting the table, and more. It helps time and ease up work. It also make Thanksgiving a better family time, for Thanksgiving is because the Pilgrims and Indians sat down and had a meal with peace.

The Perfect Christmas

Christmas has changed for me over the last decade or so. I have learned the true meaning of Christmas. Today the meaning that Christmas had when I was a child does not exists anymore.

The real meaning of Christmas

You may not believe it, but there us evidence that Christmas is not when2012124203839_the_christmas_gift Jesus Christ was born. Christmas begins after the Romans honor the pagan god of Saturn, the god of agriculture. The Romans honored the pagan god December 17 to December 25. The Roman leader was trying to figure out when Christ was born. They believed that the Earth was created in the spring equinox, so they believed Jesus was conceived in the Spring. He would be born nine months later, in the winter. They may have been wrong.

Now looking back and reading the scripture there is some proof that Jesus was born in the Summer or early Fall. There are a couple points that I think should have made me think when I was a child. The first one is “the shepherds were in the field watching their flock at the time of Jesus’ birth.”.

Luke 2:7-8 New International Version (NIV)

7 and she gave birth to her firstborn, a son. She wrapped him in cloths and placed him in a manger, because there was no guest room available for them.

8 And there were shepherds living out in the fields nearby, keeping watch over their flocks at night. (Bible Gateway)

Now during the winter the shepherds would not be out in the fields with their flocks, because it would be so cold like it is in the United States. It still had to be warm, at least cool outside. Also there had to be food for the flock like grass or leaves fallen from the tree. This is why it is now being seen that Jesus was not born at Christmas. Also a pagan ritual of giving gifts, decorating with bright colors, and celebrating starts December 25th. This is what Christmas is today.

The reason for Jesus Christ our Savior

Even if Christ was not born on Christmas Day, why can’t we remember the birth of our Savior. Why does Christmas have to be about gifts, cookies, music, and big meals. Jesus was born with nothing in the World, but when He ascended into Heaven He had everything. He is giving it back to us one day if you follow Him.

Make Christmas the perfect day

We are all different. If you believe in Christ, as I do, I believe we should celebrate Christmas for Him. Seeing as Christmas is a pagan holiday I believe we should not observe their rituals. That does not mean we cannot remember Jesus Christ. You can do that by going to church, having a great Christmas dinner, do not expect any gifts but be giving, stay focused on Jesus don’t celebrate Santa, Rudolph, and the other eight reindeer.

Always Be Kind

Any holiday of the year is about friends and family getting together and being happy. If we all want to be happy then making the person next to you should make you happy. Think of this…Imagine yourself at a round table of one hundred people. If all you did was be kind to the person on your left and the person on your right then you would start a chain reaction of kindness. When each one repeats your kindness in a matter of minutes all one hundred people would be kind to each other. Now put this in your image…the table is a mix of culture, race, religion, and sex. Do you think that would change the kindness? Well I do not think so. The reason is because if people put aside all the differences for the holiday then kindness will be greater. Let’s challenge ourselves this year and into next year. Let us be kind to one another. Let us not get offended because someone has a different opinion or culture. We all were created by God and we all have a purpose in His image.

Ephesians 4:29-32 New International Version (NIV)

29 Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen. 30 And do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, with whom you were sealed for the day of redemption. 31 Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, brawling and slander, along with every form of malice. 32 Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.


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Christmas is less than a month away and what are you going to buy for your friends and family. We all are in tough times with money and I want to try and help. I have set up an Ebay account and for now I am selling movies cheap. I set up a page on my blog to let everyone know what I am selling. If you are looking for anything ask me. I might have it and be willing to sell it at a fair price. Here are a few movies that I recently added to Ebay.

Disney Pixar Wall-E (DVD) Animated Movie 2008 Digitally Mastered Walt Disney

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The highly acclaimed director of FINDING NEMO and the creative storytellers behind CARS and RATATOUILLE transport you to a galaxy not so far away for a new cosmic comedy adventure about a determined robot named WALL-E. After hundreds of lonely years of doing what he was built for, the curious and lovable WALL-E discovers a new purpose in life when he meets a sleek search robot named EVE. Join them and a hilarious cast of characters on a fantastic journey across the universe. Transport yourself to a fascinating new world with Disney-Pixar’s latest adventure, now even more astonishing on DVD and loaded with bonus features, including the exclusive animated short film BURN-E. WALL-E is a film your family will want to enjoy over and over again.


American Pie 2 (DVD, 2002, Unrated Version; Collector’s Edition)

American Pie 2 Unrated
American Pie 2 Unrated (DVD, Collector’s Edition)

Here’s the pie couldn’t see in theaters! This special unrated edition of American Pie 2 is the comedy hit you’ll want to watch again and again! The characters you love are back! One year after the prom-night misadventures immortalized in American Pie, the entire gang has reunited for the summer. Now, an innocent-looking beach house will be transformed into the ultimate party central. Five guys will discover the powerful bonds of friendship…and Super Glue. Five girls will explore the mysteries of love…and the Rule of Three. And from late-night band camp encounters to some very accommodating next-door neighbors, this will be one summer vacation none of them will ever forget!


Die Another Day Special Edition 2002

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When his top-secret mission is sabotaged, James Bond (Pierce Brosnan) finds himself captured by theenemy, abandoned by MI6 and stripped of his 007 license. Determined to get revenge, Bond goes head-to-head with a sultry spy (Oscarr winner* Halle Berry), a frosty agent (Rosamund Pike) anda shadowy billionaire (Toby Stephens) whose business is diamonds but whose secret is a diabolical weapon that could bring the world to its knees! Bristling with excitement and bursting with explosivespecial effects, Die Another Day is an adrenaline-pumping thrill-ride with “stunts and non-stop action [that] will astonish you” (Jeffrey Lyons, WNBC-TV)! *2001: Actress, Monster’sBall

The 6th Day (DVD, 2001)

The 6th day

The 6th Day (DVD, 2001)

A world of the very near future in which cattle, fish and even family pet can be cloned. But cloning humans is illegal — that is until family man Adam Gibson comes home from work one day to find a clone has replaced him. Taken from his family and plunged into a sinister world he doesn’t understand, Gibson must not only save himself from the assassins who must now destroy him to protect their secret, but uncover who and what is behind the horrible things happening to him.

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Robin Hood Prince of Thieves, Kevin Costner (DVD Action-Drama)

Nobleman crusader Robin of Locksley (Kevin Costner) breaks out of a Jerusalem prison with the help of Moorish fellow prisoner Azeem (Morgan Freeman) and travels back home to England. But upon arrival he discovers his dead father in the ruins of his family estate, killed by the vicious sheriff of Nottingham (Alan Rickman). Robin and Azeem join forces with outlaws Little John (Nick Brimble) and Will Scarlett (Christian Slater) to save the kingdom from the sheriff’s villainy. Music composed by Bryan Adams and Michael Kamen.


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It has not even been a week when ISIS attacked Paris, France. It was a tragic event. I was sad when I heard this on the news and over the internet. Now Paris is remembering those who were the victim of that day they were attacked.

They have their Eiffel Tower lite up blue, white, and red. They do this to pay tribute to ones who were victims of the terrorist attacks. I found these so kind it made me cry.

I had a flashback of 9/11 when ISIS attacked the World Trade Center. So we will never forget

many people were lost that day and so many people hurt in their heart. I remember the Firefighters and Police that saved many lives. I also remember seeing the World Trade Center fall on live television while I was at work that day. I can relate to how they feel in France now because I felt my heart was stabbed back then.


We need to stand strong. Keep the morale of France, Belgium, and the United States strong. ISIS may be planning to return to the United States and soon. Stand strong, be faithful.

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Muslims Launch Powerful Social Media Campaign Against ISIS With #NotInMyName

Muslims around the world are joining an anti-ISIS social media campaign sharing pictures and messages with the hashtag #NotInMyName.

Ever since 9/11 there has been hatred towards the Muslims. I understand for those people who have no understanding of religion, culture, traditions, or beliefs, because I hated the Muslims fourteen years ago. A few months after 9/11 I heard on the Late Show that it was the “Evil” Muslims. This shocked me. I was thinking rebel Muslims are attacking us. I was not sure if Jay Leno was correct or not. So I did some research to confirm or disprove what was being broadcast.

I did find out the next mourning on NBC News that we found out that a Muslim Terrorist Group attacked the World Trade Center. I was confused because I worked with a Muslim at that time. I would never label him as a terrorist. He was kind, funny, smart, a helping-hand, supportive, and loved to talk.

I had only been out of High School for a little over a year and I remembered what my English teacher taught me. She taught me there are many different kinds of people out there. It does not depend on the color of their skin, their culture, their religion, their sex, or the profession. All that it matters is their Faith. Although I am a Christian and the Muslims are mainly Islam I will say this… I believe God gave us the free will to choose for a reason. He does not want puppets. He wants us to chose to follow Him.

I believe it does not matter what religion anyone believes in, we all need to have Faith. Faith is our “Ray of Hope” for the Afterlife. One thing we all who believe in a god needs to do is make sure you believe in the True God. I am not being arrogant saying I am right, because I could be totally wrong and the Atheist is right, but I have had visions, heard the Voice, and I have been healed by God Almighty twice. Since the first day I was Saved I have felt more secure in my heart and have never doubt Him.

If everyone in the World would learn one thing from Jesus Christ I wish it would be this…

Ephesians 4:32
And be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ’s sake hath forgiven you.

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The French are fighting back. I am glad they are because ISIS does not give a crap about anyone except themselves. Let’s go get them.

Source: France Strikes ISIS in Syria; Hunts ‘Dangerous’ Attack Suspect

Dozens Dead in Explosions and Shootings in Paris, French President Locking Down Borders – ABC News

Paris Under Attack!

I cannot believe it. I am just chilling for the night and what do I see on ABC World News? Paris, France is under attack! If I remember my history correctly they have not been to war since WWII.


I do not think this was just a suicider that did not see anything good in life any longer. I believe this was a terrorist attack. I just heard from local news, WNEP,  that   Jihadi John was killed a few hours ago. I believe this is an attack from the Al-Qadea. France has been there with us for a long time. We will return the favor. We will fight for them.

Source: Dozens Dead in Explosions and Shootings in Paris, French President Locking Down Borders – ABC News

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Stupidity May Have Conscientious

Stupid people can do some real dumb things. I mean like burning leaves not even ten feet away from a kerosene tank that is right behind the garage has to be pretty close to the top ten “most stupidest” things to do. Why can’t people think before they do, take advice when offered, or be safe rather than sorry. I know I rather have a roof over my head than nothing at all.

Right and Wrong Way to Burn Leaves

My step-father, which I do not consider family any longer, decided to burn leaves this weekend. I had thought about it, but it was breezy and still early. I thought if it calmed down I would burn the leaves. I was out chilling in the cool breeze and he came out and asked me if I wanted to help him burn leaves. I told him it was too breezy out and we shouldn’t burn leaves so near the garage. He just shrugged me off a lit the leaves. I brought stress, concern, worry, fear, and a lot more on me. I was so concerned about my own well being I was going to take my valuables and leave for the day. I figured if he did burn the house down I would at least have my television and laptop. All the stress knocked me out. A few hours later I woke up and he was done. The house is still standing, but that is not the point.

There are ordinances in my area that declare one has to have an open fire 15 to 20 feet away from a building or anything like trees, bushes, or a fuel tank. Most of the towns in the county are under burning bans. He may only burn leaves and trash because he lives in a rural area and the population is lower then what is required to issue the burning ban.

My opinion he was wrong because he did not be safe. He is also wrong because someone, me, pointed out a mistake and he chose to ignore it. He is stupid because he cannot think what could happen, especially when it comes to the house, garage, cars, money, and everything else. Finally he is unorganized when it comes to do tasks. When he replaces a wheel on a car he has to keep going back to garage 10 times or more. He cannot prepare ahead of time.

This scares me. The reason is I cannot do anything for him because he will not let me help. He will not listen to what I have learned to be safe or more efficient. I could have a way to save him a million dollars in taxes and he would not want to hear me. I fear for his life, for his well being, my mother’s mental and emotional well being, financial standings, and more. I have given up. He has been like this for the last 20 years and is getting worst. I can take some advice. Please if anyone sees the blog and has some advice for me make a comment. I need help

With Great Worries,

Ryan A Carson

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I take the quizzes on Facebook every now and then. You just click on them and gives you a result. Well this quiz was “What song are you?”. I like music, in my opinion, I am creative and realistic so I thought it would be way off. I was so wrong.

What Song Are You?

This link told me my song was Imagine by John Lennon.  I first heard this song when I was a teenager. I loved watching Quantum Leap because it was inspiring to me that one person could help the World so much. When I heard Imagine it made me cry and still does today.

I was raised in a Christian family, went to church, graduated from a Christian High School, and I am 100% positive there is an omnipotent being that created everything and has a purpose for us. I believed this since I was a child. My mother believes I got saved, dedicating ones life to Jesus Christ keeps your soul from hell, because of a free religion church. Well she is wrong. When I started going to a Christian school I was 12. My principal preached to us every Friday and talked during gym, choir, and Bible. He asked once if we ever doubted that Jesus existed. He also asked if we believe there is an all powerful being. That is when it hit me… I do! I knew there had to be something in control, nothing can happen by chance. Even if evolution was the way we were created the process happened the way it did because of a supernatural being. That day I decided to dedicate the life God the Almighty gave me back to Him. I talked to my principal near the end of the day, because we had choir, and he congratulated me for my decision. We bowed our heads a prayed to God for Salvation.  If you are wondering how to get Saved here is a scripture

Romans 10:9-13

 9 that i if you confess with your mouth the Lord Jesus and believe in your heart that God has raised Him from the dead, you will be saved. 10 For with the heart one believes unto righteousness, and with the mouth confession is made unto salvation.11 For the Scripture says, j “Whoever believes on Him will not be put to shame.” 6 12 For k there is no distinction between Jew and Greek, for lthe same Lord over all m is rich to all who call upon Him. 13 For n“whoever calls o on the name of the LORD shall be saved.” – New King James Version (NKJV) Copyright © 1982 by Thomas Nelson, Inc. 

I have had a feeling since I was a teenager that I would have a position of authority. I wanted to go into the Air Force, but I have a disorder and would never get accepted. Then as I got my first summer job I saw myself taking care of my parents forever so they would never need anything. This was good because it gave me ambition. I tried selling Cutco knives, fail, then I got a job at McDonald’s. It worked out good and I liked fast food. When I went to college I got a job at Burger King and wanted to make Manager. I did get moved up in ranking among the crew, but never made Shift management.

While I was working in two fast food jobs I was going to college for Computer Aided Drafting and Design. I really enjoyed the class, but I hit an obstacle my last semester. I was having issues with civil engineering. All i had to do was calculate coordinates where I wanted the line to draw. It is like playing connect the dots on a x,y axis. I got frustrated and dropped the class. I never returned. I guess my dream was shattered, it became a nightmare.

Many more dreams

I have always believed I could do what I set my mind to. I thought I was realistic. Thinking I maybe wrong. I did live a dream though. I made manager at a restaurant where I currently live, unfortunately it is like one day I woke up and reality bite me in the butt. I was demoted because I sent a crew member home because they were being subordinate. I left that job and went to a factory working 12 hour shifts. Meanwhile I attempted to start an online business. It did not work. I don’t know maybe that was a dream within a dream. I always kept positive that it would pickup and my business would go viral. Then the sun rose and I woke up again.

So many dreams that never come true. When true life is not and more than likely will never be what you dream it to be. I dream of living in the city with lots of lights and much to do, family wife two kids, pool, sports car, truck, and a restaurant with customers that my business makes happy everyday. All is a dream and none has come true. Face it reality bites.

I choose to share this because this is truly me.

You are born dreamer. Your grandiose visions of a better world, are unfortunately the reason that you fail again and again into the harsh realities of the world as it is. But no matter how many times you fall on your face, you stand up again and stay true to your ideas. And at least in the small areas, you make sure that there is an oasis of peace for family and friends.

John Lennon- Imagine 

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I was just browsing through Facebook and I saw a post of my cousin. We were born in the same month and, like me, her birthday is coming soon. She made an event to let us know that she did not want a birthday gift. Seems a little odd, right!

Don Not Be Self-Centered, Share Even On Your Birthday

If you think it is odd she did not want a birthday gift, then you may be a little selfish. She wants to help out her sister and a friend with financial medical problems. Now I am sure you have had financial issues when you or one in your family had a severe medical problem. I know I have, I have been there, but we are not talking about me.

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I first want to introduce my other cousin Rebecca Outzs. She is a great, caring, strong woman. She is independent, loves animals, and kind. Now she is surgery and biopsy. If you want to help her out or find out more Click Here 

Single mother of two can use some help

We all have problems, but losing a hand due to a blast accident causes a lot of problems in life. She is a mother of two, 6 and 10. She can use some help. She has already had the surgery to replace her hand and now is starting therapy. If you wish to help her out please Click Here.

I like helping people out and if you like to do the same here is they way to do it. This is a great Christmas gift, even to make you feel good. If you cannot afford a donation a prayer is always appreciated. Please share this page and spread the word.

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Happy Halloween. This is the best song of Michael Jackson.

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Stages in Life Do Not Always Go The Best Way.

Life is so difficult. We have challenges in childhood, as an adult, and growing old. We all are so selfish on life, do we show sympathy for others?

A Friend, Like A Father, Is On A Spiral

13 things mentally strong people doI met a friend of mine almost 15 years ago. Today he is in Williamsport Hospital and will be getting his second foot removed. He has had thick blood for a long time. It has caught up to him. When I fist met him he worked at an auto shop. His daughter was only 5 years old. Time flies by but not  always for the better.

When I was doing advertising for Amazon he had his first leg removed. He was really depressed and didn’t know how he would get around. I showed him a wheelchair carrier I sold. He liked it because it would fit good on his van, easy to take his wheelchair up, and is sturdy. This cheered him up a little, but over the last few years he has gotten even more depressed.

A little over a year ago he had to have a foot removed. They severed from below the knee. It had to heal before he could get an artificial leg, he still has not gotten one yet. As of Sunday it was determined that he would have to have the other foot removed as well. I was so sad for him. He had to make a decision to have it removed or not. I had reached my opinion decision, but that does not matter it is all up to him.

Yesterday he made the decision to have the foot removed. Why he decided this I do not know yet. I do think this is a good decision though. His doctor said that he would get him fitted for an artificial leg for the one he had done last year. He will have to undergo therapy for awhile. In the meantime his new leg will be made and he should get it in two weeks. Then in six months to a year he can get one for the foot he had removed yesterday. I hope within the next year or two he get back to the ways he was five years ago. He will be able to mow the lawn, cook on the grill, and probably be able to drive again. He will not feel helpless. I know it will get better.

 Financial Hardships

I think we all, except those born into money, have had a financial hardship. I have had it, my parents have had it, my have had it, and my co-workers have had it. I think if everyone who has had a financial hardship named who they know in the same situation the list would be indefinite. These are hard-times. We need to make plans, budget, and save.

My first financial hardship was when I graduated high school and moved out of town and went to college. I went to ITT Technical Institution for Computer Aided Drafting and Design (CADD). The class was five days a week and four hours a day. I had two jobs, one in the mourning and one in the evening. Everything was cheaper back then and the pay in Harrisburg, PA was not that bad at that time. The problem I had was coming home every weekend and using a full tank of gas, going out to eat all the time, going to the bar, buying video games, well blowing my money. I never learned about budgeting my money until a few years ago. If we do not budget our money we are not aware where our money goes. We will spend money when we do not have it, up our credit cards, and go into debt. Stay out of debt by simply budgeting your income and expenses. Trust me it needs to be done. If you want to learn how to manage you debt Click Here!

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Your Heart Truly Matters In Life

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Life Can Hurt the Heart

Our heart does matter! You may think at times that people do not think your heart matter, your feelings, but they do. Do not mislead yourself we all have bad days. We all lose a loved one, do not achieve goals we set, get held back because of unexpected circumstances, whatever has happened in your life I would bet the roof over my head that the person next door has experienced the same in a similar situation. It does not matter that you feel hurt because you lose a friend or do not get the promotion you have been wanting it is natural, totally human. Just do not get mad and unsociable.

Losing Who or What You Love

It is life we will gain and lose people and things. Our life is like the stock market. There are years it climbs very well and the economy, “your life” takes off. Then there are times it goes down even starts to plummet. This is like times in your life things get difficult.

When we have one we love we will do whatever it takes to show them how much we love them. But if they do not love us like that or at worst if something happens to them we cannot control it. No one can predict the future but living with a passion to find your true love, rather it is a person or a thing, is a goal we all should set. Sometimes we lose that true love and we will never forget, but we still have a heart. We just need to aim our passion in a different direction. Always in anything in life or business set goals, make achievements, and aim high. This helps your passion go higher and one day you will find your true love.

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A Long Hard Week Needs A Little Relaxation

its fwidayThis week was a long, long week. I must say “Thank God It’s Friday!“. Getting a new job is rough and not be able to schedule your own breaks makes it a little rougher. I have learned more this week, which is good, also got a lecture from my supervisor.

A couple weeks ago I was transferred to another department. I started out testing circuit boards, now I am assembling devices. This is not really that difficult to do, but can be annoying. The visual aids I see to help me assemble sometimes look deceptive. They can also tell you one description on one step and another description on the next step. This is annoying to me because I have already messed up and had to redo my work this week because the procedure was deceptive. It was not like this when I was testing circuit boards. My supervisor then made sure all procedures were up to date and not misleading. I want to go back.

I mentioned about not being able to schedule my own breaks. Well when I first started about eleven months ago I was allowed to take my break when I wanted to, as long as it was a time breaks were scheduled. There is an early break and a late break. I prefer the late break because it seems so long until first break and it seems like I never have enough time after late last break. When it comes to last break either you take break 10 minutes before the hour or on the hour. A whole hour to get my job done is more beneficial to getting more done, at least that is the way I am.

This just has not been the perfect week. I have not slept well, have had headaches, have had problems finding things that were right in front of me, and in pain. I decided to relax after work, made a few drinks, and write this blog. I think after this I am going to play a few games and just enjoy myself. If you have had a rough week do not stress tonight and relax, you deserve it. Enjoy your weekend! 🙂

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I have had a new job for almost a year now. We get mandated overtime at least once a month and can volunteer for any other weekend. Although recently for the last couple months the have stopped overtime all together in my department. I was planning to go off this weekend, but plans get changed.


My boss informed us this Thursday that we got mandate for Saturday, yesterday, and ten hours on Monday thru Wednesday. I got to wondering, why just four days? Then it hit me. It is the end of the month and the end of the quarter. We have to be the most productive and efficient as possible. It make sense to me from the business angle. Although I wish this happened last week. I don’t know why, but I just don’t want to work it the last week of the month.

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Who Should Be Quarterback: Jones or Vick

Wow I must saw wow what a game! I am into football and NASCAR, but when Michael Vick left at half-time due to pulledCardinalsSteelersFootball-082ef hamstring I was wondering what the Steelers would do. I saw this young kid walk in and wondered who is he? They said that this was his first play in the NFL fresh from college. I was so doubtful for a minute, and then…

 The Second Half

The second half came and no Michel Vick, instead Landry Jones third string walked onto the field. It appears that Vick had pulled his hamstring. It seems like The Pittsburgh Steelers were in trouble. When Jones made his first play officially in the NFL he made a great complete pass. He completed 8 of 12 passes and scored twice. I did notice on flaw at least he needs to work on. He was doing continuous passes to Antonio Brown. This is not good. I have noticed Ben Roethlisberger has had this flaw too. He has a play that works he will keep doing it until he can’t get it to work.

Big Ben may be a veteran and know how to make a come back, but Jones still needs well defined. This is where Big Ben comes in good. Now I am not saying kick out the veteran and bring in the rookie, no never. I am just saying Big Ben is getting up there, his body isn’t as well as it was 20 years ago, and he needs time with family. I think this is up to him, but I also believe that he hasn’t retired because he loves the game and finding someone to replace him. Now that may be possible. I do not think it will be this year and more than likely not next year, but by 2017 I think if it all goes great Big Ben may retire and Jones may be the new starter. We will see.

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Time Heals All Wounds

Does time heal all wounds? I think there are some things this is true, but most things in our life it does not. In everyone’s life there are good and bad times. We need to resolve the bad times in life before we no longer have the chance. Do you have wounds that are still in pain?

Wounds Time May Heal

When we are children we do not understand the way our parents raise us. We may have had conflicts with other children, have social issues, or not have received name brand products from our parents. I do not want to blame the parents for everything, but some may be their fault.

I want to go with the name brand products. All kids in their teen years get pier pressure. They get pushed into what clothes,God is love what shoes, how to do their hair, drugs, and more. parents need to decide where to draw the line. If the parents are not in such a financial hardship that they cannot get the child name brand product then I believe they should. If the child is hanging out with children in a crowd with drugs, alcohol, and violence then the parent has the God given right to set their foot down. The wrong crowd will affect the child’s future. They may end up in jail, selling drugs, or be killed before they become an adult. When it comes to clothes and styling your hair that is almost insignificant. As long as they do not want to dress offense to others then I believe let the child express themselves.

The reason I address this is because my family when I was growing up was in financial struggles. My parents were divorced. My mother remarried and we moved out in the boom docks. When I was in public school at that time I was depressed and confused. I got harassed and wanted out. My mom gave in a sent me to a private school. She was getting child support for me and used it to pay for my tuition. I could not understand why she couldn’t get me new shoes, cool clothes, video games and more. She had a job, my step-dad had a job and business, and she was getting child support for me. When i got latter in my teen years she explained that the child support paid for my tuition, food for school, some clothes, and skiing. I think that was the first life lesson I learned. A couple years down the road I figured that all need to work together to meet a goal. So if I want name brand products I need to get a job and I did. My Junior and Senior years in High School I was working at McDonald’s. I bought better clothes and better shoes. It made my mom happy cause i was becoming responsible. In a way I did it out of love for her and myself. She still took care of my tuition and food for lunch with the child support. I think that was my ground base that all families need to work together to help each other out. After all we all have the same blood.

There Are Wounds Not Even Time Helps

There are many times in everyone’s life that hurt our heart and soul that time will not heal. Even if the wound heals a scare is left to remind us of what happened in the past.

Jesus-Will-Carry-Your-Burdens-photoMy time in the past I will never forget and never stop being sad over is the lost of a friend in Junior High School. She was the perfect girl, a friend, a Christian, sweet, cared for others, a died of cancer as a teenager. She did not do anything wrong that she deserved to die, but God choose to take her from the Earth. I think of her from time to time because I miss her and I wish more people were like her. It took me some time to get to the stage of acceptance. Want to know how?

My church was having a revival. In one of the sermons I learned that God has a purpose for all of us, even the ones who pass at an early age in life. Sometimes God takes the good Christians early because they have reached what He sent them for. I do not know why He took her, but I like to believe she reached what God had sent her for early in life and God took her home. One day I will see her again, I just wish I could have been or could have reached what she did 20 years ago.

The lost of a loved one, betrayal, abuse, and a lot more can cause permanent wounds or scares. They will not go away we just need to deal with it. That is where God, family, and counseling comes into play. You talk to God about your problems in life and he will listen. He may not fix it, but He will help you deal with it. Talking to your family helps because they may have had similar issues in their past. Confiding into family should be the best way to deal with your life wounds second to God. Finally if you do not feel comfortable talking to family or God, then counseling is a good idea. They will listen to you. I am not talking about a “shrink”. A counselor is like in high school. You go talk to them about problems, ideas you may have, or achievements and do some bragging. Whatever you need to get your past dealt with do it. My past is still haunting me, but I am in progress of getting it all dealt with. Are you?

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Have you ever done a favor for a friend or a relative and not received a favor in return? Does this make you feel wrong? Does it make you feel angry? Maybe you feel betrayed? Well if you do feel this way you are not alone. There are many people out there who do favors, but do not expect anything in return. They do however hope for kindness from friends and families that they always help and support. Should we show kindness and hope for kind acts in return? Maybe we should set a common ground for acts of kindness to get kindness back?

Be Kind One To Another

I have always wondered why so many people were so mean. Why cannot everyone return kindness with kindness. The Holy Bible, God, tells us we should be kind on to another, forgive one another, because God has forgiven us. Why is it so hard to forgive a person who has made a mistake? In the previous years I have studied and have been educated in The Holy Bible and Life. The Bible sometimes make life seem so simple, but growing up from a child to teen years, and then to adulthood can be complicated. Life does not always go as we plan it. When things go downhill we need support from family and friends.

Jesus-Will-Carry-Your-Burdens-photoFamily and friends need to stand by each other’s side. We all need support in life. We all have good times and hard times, but does everyone have someone by their side? Well unfortunately I have to say, “No!”. Today there are so many. According to American Foundation for Suicide Prevention, an American dies every 12.95 minutes. They also tell us that every woman that committs suicide four men do as well, although 3x as many women attempt suicide. There are more than 1.5 million years of life lost every year due to suicide.

You may not be religious, but we all should have morals. If you are a moral person you are,  concerned with the principles or rules of right conductor the distinction between right and wrong; ethicalI hope this is you. I know my baseline is moral, but there are times I stray away and make wrong, immoral decisions. We are all human and we all make mistakes. The good thing about being moral you can look back on the mistakes you have made and learn, and then improve yourself. This is good for yourself, your family, and business.

Do I Have The Right To Get Back At One Who Hurts Or Offends Me?

When it comes to getting back at the jerk in your life, do you think you have the right to get even? Well I use too when I was a child. My dad talked to me about laws. He told me, “It Does not matter if you are the offender or the offended one cannot commit a crime like assault.” I did not agree and fully understand when I was a child. When I went to a Christian School I learned about how to get even. You ask God! Psalms 68:18-20  Praise be to the Lord, to God our Savior, who daily bears our burdens.- Psalms 68: 19

Grace of GodToday I have learned that God takes our burdens and He gets even for us as well. I will give you a high school story. When i was in Junior High School I was being threatened by a classmate. It got so bad I transferred to a different school, private school. I left all my friends, my teachers, and times I loved in school. In about three years we were classmates again. He got kicked out of school and had to go to summer school. When my friends found out he was coming they had a talk with him. He changed, he was spoken to by Christ, he now decided to become a morale person that is what my friends told me. I was in doubt, but open minded, everyone changes one way or another, The first day of school came and we met again for the first time. I was shocked he was nice, complimenting, encouraging, fun to be around, and funny. I wish we were friends longer because he was pretty cool. The last year I was at the school I left I said a lot of prayers of the jerks being cool with me. I have met almost all the jerks from school since then and now they are pretty cool. we all change, but having God as our Light in the Darkness gives us Hope.

Life is hard. Always remember God has plans for us in the afterlife. He will give us rewards in Heaven. Are you Saved?God is love Have you strayed from Christ? Say a prayer. Here is what I said to God when I got saved, “God, I love you, Jesus Christ, and the Holy Spirit. I am sorry for all the sins I have committed in my life, please forgive me. I offer you my soul and my spirit for Salvation. I look forward to the day we meet in the many years to come. Thank -You God for my Salvation. Amen” After I said this prayer I felt the Spirit inside me, I knew I was saved. I have fallen back in my life and have said almost the same prayer, but asked for forgiveness. If you have any questions, especially about Salvation leave a response and I will help you. God Bless You All.

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Getting By The Rough Road In Life

My last week was so rough. I do not know exactly why, but all week my body was in severe pain. I still had to go to work, had to get things done at home, and had appointments. Then the weekend came and I decided to take it off.

Going Through A Rough Week You Deserve A BreakGod is love

We all need some time off from life. We need time to relax, to yourself, to go fishing, to catch up on things that you have wanted to do for a long time. This is not selfish as long as it is not done on a regular bases. We all need a peace of mind, to come back to one’s personal reality away from all the stress in life.

Under A Lot of Stress That No One Will Understand

We all have our major stresses in life. You may think that no one will understand why you are so stressed out about it. You may be right to a point. People around you may not be able to relate to what you are currently stressing about, but you are also wrong. Everyone has had a major stressful point in life. You may not see their stress relates to yours, but to them it does. You have a major stress talk to a friend you are close with. Explain why you are stressed out, then they will be able to relate to it. They maybe able to offer advice, compassion, and moral support. This will help you get through your “rough road” because the road will begin to get smoothed and you path will open up.

Nothing Will Ever Go Right Again

We all go through hard times and life, some harder than others. There is a reason for these. According to The Holy Bible (King James Version) God puts us through test known as trials and tribulations. Here are a few scriptures that may help you through some hard times in life.

  •  1 Peter 5:10 – But the God of all grace, who hath called us unto his eternal glory by Christ Jesus, after that ye have suffered a while, make you perfect, stablish, strengthen, settle [you].
  • Romans 12:12 – Rejoicing in hope; patient in tribulation; continuing instant in prayer;
  • James 1:2-8 – My brethren, count it all joy when ye fall into divers temptations;3 Knowing [this], that the trying of your faith worketh patience.4 But let patience have [her] perfect work, that ye may be perfect and entire, wanting nothing.5 If any of you lack wisdom, let him ask of God, that giveth to all [men] liberally, and upbraideth not; and it shall be given him.6 But let him ask in faith, nothing wavering. For he that wavereth is like a wave of the sea driven with the wind and tossed.7 For let not that man think that he shall receive any thing of the Lord.8 A double minded man [is] unstable in all his ways.
  • Joshua 1:9 – Have not I commanded thee? Be strong and of a good courage; be not afraid, neither be thou dismayed: for the LORD thy God [is] with thee whithersoever thou goest.

Joshua 1:9 is one of my favorites. So many of us are afraid to take a chance in life. To take a leap forward, even if we will get out of the hole. If you have Faith in God then He will be there for you. I tell He is because I know. If it was not for Him I would not be blogging today. Evil thoughts have gone through my mind the last couple years, but my Faith kept me wanting to move forward. I had thoughts of suicide, but He spoke to me that it would not solve anything. He has been there my whole life for me, that is why I love the Lord God Almighty and Jesus Christ my Savior. If you are interested in more about God, Jesus, Faith, or Salvation drop a comment. You may also follow me on Facebook. May God be with you all.

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Lessons In Life Are Learned Early

We might not know it, but some simple things we learn as a child can really impact us for the good as adults. If we do not learn as a child we should not blame our parents, because there is many ways to learn a life lesson. Sometimes children are not given money, chores or pets because of lack of trust, religion, culture, or a parent’s childhood. One thing we all need to remember we are all unique, we learn different ways than others.

Looking Back To Childhood

look back on childhoodWhen I was a child I was given responsibilities. These were chores I was suppose to get done everyday because I was the man of the house. This confused me as a child. I am the youngest of two, I have an older sister, and at that time my Step-Father was more than able to take care of chores around the house. I saw it as they were trying to push “work” off on me. I thought, “If I have a job then I won’t have to do this dumb chores.”. I was such a fool when I was young. Although when I got my first job, it was a summer job, I felt appreciated, felt accomplished, felt like there was a meaning for what I did. It was encouraging to me. I thought at the time it was just the paycheck, but now I think it is more.

What does a paycheck mean to you?

When I got my first paycheck I felt accomplished. My first week was so stressful. I wondered if it was worth it, but the paycheck told me it was. We get a check either weekly or bi-weekly and it makes us feel the job is worth the effort because we need the income. Although when you were a child did you really know what feeling accomplished was like? I mean parents say “Thank-You” or “I appreciate” is great but giving an allowance not only makes a child feel accomplished it teaches the life lessons on budgeting.

How an allowance can teach a child money management

There are many ways a child can be taught money management. An allowance is the best way. Bank of America has seven tips on better money habits.

  1. Know your child– When your child gets to a certain age they will come to an understanding about money. An allowance allows your child to understand about the difference between buying a video game or renting a video game.
  2. Decision, Give An Allowance For Good Grades or Doing Chores– Sixty-one percent of parents give their kids an allowance for doing chores, as 48% give their children an allowance for good grades. (According to the American Institute for CPAs). Now rewards for good grades is a great idea, but there are mentally challenged children that may not be diagnosed later in life. Paying for doing chores may not sound like a great idea, but can teach responsibility. Let’s say they are responsible for five things a week and you would pay them $5.00. They agree but you set conditions. The first I would set would be a dollar per chore so if they only do 4 out of 5 they will only get $4.00.
  3. Chores Are A Good Idea– According to the AICPA, 89% of parents require the children to earn their allowance. According to financial experts, allowance is a learning tool and should not be tied with chores. If you agree with this then you can encourage your children to help out around the house and give the allowance as a reward.
  4. Make the decision on how your child can spend their allowance– You may think you wouldn’t have the right, but you do. The Government makes laws on when and how we can spend our money legally. We are not allowed to buy alcohol before we are 21. Well I am sure most people had their first job before then. So as a parent you can limit spending on video games, toys, educational, school, recreation, saving, donation, and more. Make rules and if the do not follow you can “Fine” them. You can do that by holding a week’s allowance or by having them pay you.
  5. Teach How To Save– Saving is important at any stage in life. It does not matter if a child wants to save for a video game or an adult wants to save for a car or home. Saving is important! We never know what will happen tomorrow. Teaching a child to save while their still in elementary school can encourage the teenager in high school to save for college.
  6. Is Charity Required– Make the decision as a parent if given to charity is required. I grew up as a Christian and still a Christian today. I believe in giving 10% to the church or those who need the help. It depends on religion and culture in your family, but giving to a charity is always good. Let them choose as well.
  7. Determine the “Do Not Do” list– Give your children a little free way but you have the right to tell them what is off limits. It would not be good if your child goes and spends money on junk food or just toys.

So now do you think giving a child responsibilities and rewarding with an allowance is good? Should they just get an allowance to learn how to manage money? Maybe you think an allowance is just another cost to you because you get the kid what they want? I want to know you opinion. I have mine. I think children should get it as a reward. They should also lose part of their allowance if some of their chores are not done. Actions have consequences. What do you think?

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Did a Neighbor go Too Far for Halloween?

I want to know what you think. Should there be boundaries for holidays like Halloween that could scare children near a school? This family has the right to express themselves, but should take into consideration who is around them. Although sometimes it just does not hit us in the head that it can offend or bother a neighbor. That is why neighbors should communicate and try to keep everyone happy, meet on a common ground. I hope this doesn’t happen in more counties around our country. If you are near a school or church think before you decorate outside. it is always good to be a little moderate outside and go full force inside. Talk to people around you and find out if anyone is offended by such an extreme decoration as in the video. You do have the right to express yourself, but so do they. So remember that when the person comes pounding on your door or tears down decorations and burns them, they are exercising their freedom of expression.

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We All Have Limits Everyday, We Need To Decide To Keep Going

I have been looking back in life the last few weeks. I looked back to the days I was in High School. I played basketball and soccer and had fun, but with fun comes pain. Then I thought I was in the worst pain ever, now I wish I could go back to those days. What has happened in all our lives have taught us a lesson, so I thought I would blog what I have learned in life.

Everyday Pain in Life

5 Stretches To Relieve Sciatica Pain Posted on September 15, 2015 by Dr. Shannon Thieroff

When I was a child my parents told me there was everyday pain and there was “pain”. I was confused then now I am not. But what are your everyday pains? Should you be in pain almost everyday?

I have been doing a lot of research on pain the last week, so do not rely on me as your only source. I recommend your see your doctor if you are having severe or consistent pain.

Can Everyday Pain be Avoided?

I want to believe we all have everyday pain. You may think I am a little harsh but I see it as the reason to show compassion to the ones around us. We can avoid pains we get everyday, but you may not know how. I want to help.


I think what causes pain in most people young or old is posture. Posture is the way one sits, stands, and does work everyday. There is no perfect posture, but that is because everyone is different. If you get shoulder pain, back pain, lower back pain, or hip pain it could be your posture affecting your body.

Getting Enough Sleep

I know the way it goes everyday. You have to get up, get ready, get the kids ready for school, get your coffee, and head to work. How many hours of sleep did you get? It is sometimes hard to get to bed on time. We have dinner, bills, taken care of the kids, time with your spouse, and more. Sometimes it seems like the day flies by and we didn’t get anything done. We still need sleep!

When you go to sleep your brain is still working. It works issues out in your brain. Studies show a good night’s sleep can improve your learning skill. They also show lack of sleep alters activity in parts of your brain. Not getting enough sleep can make decisions difficult,  controlling your emotions difficult, solving problems, and more.

We should always get plenty of sleep. It is good over a long time. Lack of sleep can hurt your personal life as well as your professional life.

Exercise, Exercise, Exercise

We should do a little working out everyday. Now you do not need to be able to push 100 pounds, but doing stretches, walks, or runs are good to help keep you lose and easier on pain. Yoga is good to learn and use to do stretches. It also helps calm you.

What to do if Pain Keeps Coming?

I unfortunately am not sure what to do with consistent pain. I have had pain for the last 15 years and it continues to get worst. That is why I am writing this. Almost 5 years ago it didn’t hurt everyday, but for long periods of time. Now it is everyday consistently. If you are like me I want to offer a few suggestions. There are herbs and vitamins that may help you. The B vitamins is good for your nerves and muscle. Also do stretches, they may not help a lot but it does ease pain. Finally see your doctor, chiropractor, and/or massage therapist. They can help you. I hope this helps someone.

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Having A Job Reschedules Your Days

I have had a new job for almost a year now. We get mandated overtime at least once a month and can volunteer for any other weekend. Although recently for the last couple months the have stopped overtime all together in my department. I was planning to go off this weekend, but plans get changed.


My boss informed us this Thursday that we got mandate for Saturday, yesterday, and ten hours on Monday thru Wednesday. I got to wondering, why just four days? Then it hit me. It is the end of the month and the end of the quarter. We have to be the most productive and efficient as possible. It make sense to me from the business angle. Although I wish this happened last week. I don’t know why, but I just don’t want to work it the last week of the month.

What To Do With Life Plans?

I had a couple things to do this week, but since my schedule changed I need to

adapt to the situation. One thing was I was going to go see some friends out of town yesterday into today. I decided not to go. I could have still gone after work yesterday, but I had not decided when to show up at work until today. Now I could show up an hour or two early or at my regular time as long as I was there for ten hours. I decided this afternoon to go in an hour early and leave an hour later. This might not affect my life too much for a few days. Since I decided this I want to get enough sleep before work tomorrow and that is the main reason I decided not to go.

The second plan I had this week was a doctor’s appointment after work. Well since my schedule is changing I had to cancel that appointment. Sometimes it is funny when you have no plans and are fully available to do overtime you don’t get it. Then when you have plans it comes and gets you. I guess that is a little ironic.

Oh well life goes on. I had to cancel and reschedule some plans. Did a little extra resting today, almost felt like an old man. I will get my plans going again next week. Now if the overtime continues, which I doubt it will, I will have to do a little replanning until the overtime is over.

I just think we all go through this almost everyday. Overtime is not just work, it is life as well. Somedays we have more problems at home, like faucets breaking and calling the plumber, and other times we have overtime with ourselves.

You may wonder what I mean. Well overtime with ourselves is meeting goals we set. We all set goals, some high some low. Meeting a goal at times can be a challenge. That is because we set goals that are too high or even not achievable. When you set a goal make sure you set a strategy plan over a reasonable amount of time. It is like buying a car. If you want to buy a new car, but want to make a down payment of $5,000 there are three things to start with. The first thing is set a date you want the car. The second is go to Kelly Blue Book and find out the value of your car. The third and final thing will sound complicated, but it is not. Take the value of your car, go low, and subtract it from your goal, $5,000. Then take the difference and divided by how many income days you have to you goal date. This will give you the amount you need to save each week you get paid. You can also take the difference and divide it by the amount you wish to save and find out how many paydays it takes. If the solution is greater than a whole number, example 25.2, count the .2 as a week this just will be a smaller amount. I am recently saving for a new car. I am saving my income and saving any extra I have.

It does not matter rather it is work or life we always have to do a little replanning. We cannot predict what will happen tomorrow. If I knew that I probably would not be writing this I would have my perfect island. That is in my dream though, maybe I will talk about that sometime in the future.

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To Lead or To Follow?

Have you ever wondered if you were a leader or a follower? I know I did at one point in my life. I was labeled a rebel. I did not consider myself a rebel. I saw myself as a person looking for improvements. Do you look for a better way to get the job done? Do you find ways to make it more cost effective? If you do you may be a leader, yet you still could be a follower.

What Does A Leader Want

Everyone thinks a leader wants you to do what they say. There is a half truth to that. A leader wants a team. When it comes to a team and work it comes to teamwork. Teamwork is defined as cooperative or coordinated effort on the part of a group of persons acting together as a team or in the interests of a common cause, work done with a team.

You like being in charge, putting your ideas in effect, and be supportive of others then you are a good candidate for a leader. There are more qualities one has to have to be a leader. If you aspire to work harder, or show positive spirit that improves negative spirit, or even offer advice that gives others to strive harder in their career and life. These are great assets of a leader. A leader should want to improve another person’s life. This would be a reward to the leader because his goal would to be pass along success.

What Is A Follower

We all are followers. Even a leader is a follower. Let us look back to the invention of flight. The Wright Brothers discovered flight in 1901. Now they were lead by a boss, they were lead by science. Newton’s Second Law tells us as an object falls it accelerates due to pull from the earth. The Wright Brothers solved this by adding another force, draft.

Now a follower can be like the Wright Brothers and make discoveries that will break the future, but they are also a leader because they took a strong stand and made a change. They may have a boss like gravity, but the follower can make a change if they stand strong. Some followers just follow others need to be noticed.

Who are you? A leader or a follower? If you feel like a leader stand strong. If you feel like a follower stand with pride. We need everyone.

The Last Week Was A Nightmare 

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Do Not Lose Your Passion

Loneliness, downheartedness, astray, and disarrangement are the way one feels without love. I know because this is how I feel now. There was a better day in my life. I had love, close friends, family, and positive ideas to look forward to in the future. Well what was the future in the past has become the present. My roads have been rough and I have been alone.

Future Plans From The Past

I graduated high school in 2000. I had plans of getting a degree, meeting the girl of my dreams, and having a family. I moved out of town and went to ITT Technical Institution to get my degree in Computer Aided Drafting and Design. I liked it because I love Math. I did well but had problems that happens in life.

Plan Your Budget

I did not realize at that time how hard it was to pay bills, buy food, take car of my car, gas, and have free time. I kept running out of money. I had never been educated on budgeting my income. I have now. I suggest to anyone who reads this learn how to budget. There are apps on Androids to help you.

I lost so much money I tucked my tail and ran home. I only had a semester left in college and I gave up. I regret that decision to this day, if I could go back in time this is one thing I would change.

Strive Forward

I did not give my degree up. I went to Pennsylvania College of Technology for a week. I took Culinary Arts a hobby, I will say, of mine. Gave it up because it was not what I really wanted. I still had an unknown desire in my heart, a passion.

When I lived away I learned a lot about business, setting goals, and being a leader. This always inspired me to do better, to strive for greater goals. I feel that if I set an example, set goals for others I can help them at work and in life.

I once received a suggestion from a manager of mine to go to college for management. I thought, “Yeah right, why do I want to do his job!?” But after going home I reconsidered it. I set my goal to become a manager.

Set A Goal Before You Get The Job

I went out looking for a job in food service, because that was my experience, to be hired on as a manager. I had experience as a Team Leader, several years in food service, and always did great with customers. It took time, but by the Grace of God I was hired at Long John Silver’s. The General Manager and Area Manager made an arrangement with me. They hired me on as crew with a higher wage and trained me in counting cash, inventory, orders, and more. They also guaranteed the intent of promoting me. It did happen. Although when you reach the top of the mountain you have to go down.

Reach Your Goal, But Planes Do Not Work Out

In my last year at LJS my General Manager retired and I was promoted. His Assistant Manager took over the restaurant. I never felt good with her from day one. I had a couple employees complaining that I was making them do their job. Wow what do you get paid for? I was mainly trained to close the restaurant, not open. One day I was scheduled to open. I messed up.

Now the night before the deposit is made. In the morning the manager runs it to the bank for a scheduled deposit. This has to be done because of the deposit made on the books the night before. If the manager is late then it screws things up. Well I was a little late. There are two reasons. One was because I was scheduled one short and the second was because another called off. I was trying to get everything ready and forgot about the deposit. I made several calls, even to other managers, and got no help. I was demoted because to deposit did not make it on time. I decided at that time to look for another job. It has been tumbling since.

My Passion Injured, But Not Defeated

When I was looking for a job my friend recommended me to apply where his father worked. I decided to take his suggestion. His father told me he got paid well with good benefits and vacation time, paid sick leave, and paid personal time. I got the job, but they were 12 hour shifts and I got stuck on nights.

I stayed positive the first couple years that I would make it to days, but gave it up eventually. I was in a department where only two people work on each shift. The only way I was going to get it if someone got fired or quit. I was the lowest one who would be able to bid on it.

During this time I was going to college online through DeVry. I majored for Bachelor’s Degree in Business Administration with a focus on Management. I did not have a lot of time in a week, much less in a day so I took only fourteen credits at a time. This was taking forever. My loans were going higher and higher. I kept feeling more discouraged that I would never make it. I saw American InterContinental University (AIU). They run their sessions 5 weeks, whereas DeVry did it 8 weeks. I did not leave DeVry because they were not a great college, I did it because of time. If I had the time to do a whole semester then I would have stayed with DeVry and graduated with my Bachelor’s Degree in Business Administration, but it did not happen. I do not think this is something I did wrong, just things happen because of choices we make in life. I graduated AIU with my Associates Degree in Business Administration.

To Place Passion In Effect or Let The Fire Burn

While I was in college I had this passion to start my own business. I wanted to be my own boss, put my ideas in effect, make plans, and have a drive. I was sure it would work, but it did not. I started as advertising for I established a business, started a blog, and promoted on Facebook and Twitter.

I spent money for months before Amazon even talked to me about keywords. At that time I knew about tagging friends in Facebook to show them a post. I did not know much about Google. I thought if I just advertised it on Social Network I would get sales, I was so wrong. Time to replan. I researched, established a Google account, focused on keywords, scheduled posts on Facebook and Twitter, I even used Hootsuite to help me out. I did it so I could be on break at work and I could go to my web page and share a product on my Social Network. Hootsuite helped, but Facebook kept changing. I would get less likes, and less page likes. My traffic was screeching to a halt.

All I got from family was negative support. No one was supportive of my decision. Now with everything coming to an end I was lost. My passion was no longer, it had been extinguished. Now all I can look back on are failures.

A Ray Of Hope

There was a time in life when I felt positive, I had my passion, I could never stop striving for more. That was when I was around more positive people, I had set goals, I had choices in my life, and my mistakes I learned from and was not lectured all the time. This can happen again. Maybe I am on the right road. I like where I am working at now, I have goals set for a new car, a place to move, and maybe even a relationship. What happens after the dust finally settles? Maybe one day I will let you know.

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Should We Agree Or Disagree?

There are conflicts every day because we all have different opinions, point of views, priorities in life, and desires. Even in your own life your personality has changed over time. Think about the past for a moment. Go back 10 years from now. What was your point of view on a job? Was it just to make some money to get your video game? Maybe you had no idea what a job was? Of course you could have just been starting your new career. Now go back to today. What is your opinion? Is it about working 9 to 5, a paycheck, or about friends? I have always had the dream of finding a job where I enjoyed working, hanging with friends, and doing something after work. That has not come true yet, but I do still pray it does.


There are many different opinions among many different generations. You may be wondering what I am talking about. Well things have changed over the last 50, 60, 70 years. Science and technology have taken off into space and then into cyberspace. Some people have decided to follow while others have not come into the new Millennium.


I have met, talked to, and have family that have had challenges with the changes over the last 70 years. I have heard stories about when the first black and white television first came out. It wasn’t like a new Xbox game that everyone has to get. People did not have the money to go get a television when it came out. Eventually though the price dropped and a television got into everyone’s house and the economy boomed, a new era began. Now televisions are Hi Definition and color, WOW! Just like the television culture has changed.


There was more respect for one another back in the 50’s. Kids had respect for their parents, wives had respect for their husband, and the husband had respect for the family. In our history back then it was more of a family country. There were more small businesses, mom and pop shop, and kids having fun. Now laws have changed, industry has kicked up, and respect for one another has been thrown out the window. Parents wonder why their kids do not listen to them, it may be cause the kids do not get parental respect from their parents.

Ephesians 6:4

-Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord

Now I do not want to preach, but if things were better in the past maybe we need to go back to what our culture did back then. This verse tells me that not only is a child at fault, but so is the parent. If a child drops their drink on the floor and gets yelled at it will not make them a better person.

I know time has changed. Our likes on TV, the internet, how we spend money, internet, cell phones, and more. Just do not disagree if you both can be right. Just because two generations are in the same room and talking about the best cartoon in their generation ever, does not mean one is wrong. Agree to disagree.

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This Last Week Was A Nightmare!

I do not know why, but my last week I did not get any rest. Maybe the reason was because of all the nightmares I had. I have not had nightmares since high school. Back then I had hard times with students in my class. I would get bad dreams and be afraid to go to school the next day. Now almost everything is going ok and just this last week bad dreams have returned. I am wondering why?

My Last Week

It has been the same everyday as it has been the last few weeks. I get up, get a cup of coffee, and go to work. Now three weeks ago I technically got a new job, but not really. Since December of last year I have been working for Primus through Aerotek Temp Agency. I got officially hired September 7th. I felt like the World got lifted off my shoulders. Now these nightmares are getting to me. There is always a reason for bad dreams, right!? I mean it has to psychological.

Goals In The Near Future

I am planing on moving, buying a newer car, and getting into a relationship all in the next year. I am hoping for the car by the end of the year. Maybe I am setting goals too short. I have enough everyday stress I do not need to add stress. I do not know. I need some help. What do you think?

I always appreciate your advice. Please leave a comment and let me know what you think.

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I knew there was going to be problems with Facebook going live, but I never thought about this. I am dumbfounded on why anyone would do this. I hope Facebook finds a way to solve this problem.

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Does Fun Make Us Happy or Does Life Give Us Happiness?

I watched this video on Facebook and I have to share it to get it out. Please watch the video and share it.

I totally agree with him. I have been through some rough times in my life. I went from being a positive thinker to being full blown negative thinker. A few years ago I lost everything. I filed bankruptcy, sold some of my belongings, and had to really on my mother to get by. My mind told me life was over. The thought of suicide did go through my mind, but because of being a Christian, educated in a Baptist school, grew up in a Pentecostal church I refused to listen to my negative side. It gave me the ray of hope. When you are down, out, and on your last breath God is there for you. This is why I started my blog. I didn’t have anyone that wanted to listen to me release my frustrations. Blogging really helped me get the stress off my mind. It got me out of the house and going looking for jobs. I went to the temp agencies and one of them got me a job that I am at today. Now I am out of my mother’s house, budgeting my income, spending some time out, and hanging with friends without someone hanging over me. This is what I call happiness.

I said all that to tell you that there were times I gave myself some fun. Everyday I played games on my laptop. I still do that to a point. It is relaxing to me. Although I still get things done at home. Also I would drink liquor back in my room. She did not like this but did not really do anything about it. That helped me relieve stress. These were all things I found “fun”. They did not keep me happy. Just for the time I did them.

I just want to say be happy. Let those around you be happy, even if you cannot be happy. The reason is because happiness can pass like a bug. When it gets one person it will go to another.

Ephesians 4:32

32 And be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ’s sake hath forgiven you.

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