Category Archives: Make Peace

I Believe I Can Fly! Can You?

When Space Jam came to the theaters in 1996 in went to the theaters with some friends to see it. I really enjoyed the movie, but what inspired me was the song, I Believe I Can Fly. For the first time I felt like I could do anything I wanted as long as I put my mind to it.

Monsters Can Come In Our Life

Did you ever have a goal to accomplish and all of a sudden everything goes wrong. It makes me think of the “monster under the bed” that always steals your socks. Well if things go wrong do not let it get you down, let it push you to try harder and learn to do greater.

When I was trying to start a business I had problems keeping thing organized, scheduled, prioritized, and getting it done. I learned it is always better to write things down and schedule events on your calendar. I use Google for everything. I have my personal and business scheduled with notifications as far as a week, even some a month ahead. When I started to get more organized the monsters seemed to go away. I took control!

Growth With Optimism, Decline With Negativity

We all need to be in a positive environment. The more positivity you are around the more you will grow. If we are in a negative environment then we will decline. We want to grow and be strong because then our soul will fly.

I am going tell you in two situations I have been in my life. I am going to start with the good one first.

Positive Environment

It was about eleven years ago I got a job at a casual dinning restaurant. I had a lot of experience so I applied for manager. The General Manager and the Area Manager interviewed me and I was hired. There was one condition though. I would not be hired on as a manager, but I would be trained to be a manager in the future. When I walked in that was what I wanted at least so I took it. They even paid me a dollar an hour more than a regular hire. I was there for two years and I was promoted to management. I was in training for about six months until I was officially promoted. Now there is a down side. Going into my fourth year they opened a new restaurant and my General Manager was transferred to that restaurant. The Assistant Manager was promoted to General Manager. I never did get along with her well and I did not think she wanted me as manager. She scheduled me for opening, which I did not do for almost a year. I did not do well. I didn’t get to the bank on time, scheduled breaks late, and had employees complaining because I did not help them open. I got demoted a few weeks later and decided to move on. I applied for a job that a friend of mine had. It wasn’t the best job, but a great paycheck. I really liked the job and did not want to leave, but there are signs in life that something comes to an end. That is what I believe happened. I would do it again in a heart beat.

Negative Enviroment

This is going to be hard cause it has been growing for a long time. It was seven years ago I started a job working nights. That was not bad for me, it actually helped. It was bad because at that time I was living with my mother and step-father. When I was hired I told them what my shift was and that I had to sleep during the day. They accepted it, but it didn’t go well. I was also attending college online. I would do a discussion before work and one on last break. This helped because I had to do three discussions a week. It freed a little time to do research on my days off.

When I was at home they talked way too much and had the TV blaring. I tried being back in my room but I could still hear them. I finally decided to pop in my ear phones, crank them up and put my “head into the books”.  It worked! It would get them a little upset because when my mother would be calling for dinner I did not hear her. I told her multiple times come up to me and tap me or wave to get my attention. She could not understand why I had the earphones in. I told her, “Either you two keep quiet and keep the TV down or I wear my earphones.” Things got worse over the years. My step-dad did the chores before I was able to. I would get up around 3 pm and he got home around 3:15 pm. He would come in and take out the trash and the garbage or go get wood in for the heat, and I did not notice it because I was studying and just got up. I had my studies in one hand and coffee in another. When he got back he would say, “I did all your chores for you.” or “Since you wouldn’t do it I did.” or “Well somebody had to get it done.”. I liked the first one to begin with until he became persistent. He then began to complain why I never did anything. Eventually about three or four years ago I stopped doing anything unless I was asked. I felt like I was no longer needed or wanted. When I lost my job it got worse because they would complain about me not being able to pay my bills. It was none of their business. The thought of suicide even crossed my mind. I was in therapy for two years until this week which was my last session. Losing my job, my business, and no support from family pushed me over the edge. Today I am independent, employed, have a Jeep Cherokee, and a nice apartment. I may have fallen big time a few years ago, but I say I gained a few steps. We all need to learn from our mistakes and from the mistakes of others.

Closure

If you are wondering where I am going with this I will tell you. There are good and bad times in all our lives, but we cannot give up. We must all have faith. If you believe in what you want and you believe it is meant for you then in time you will achieve it. I may not have my business now, but I do believe one day I will have what God intends me to have to fly.

Check Out More

Moving On In Life

Life Can Be Complicated, But it Doesn’t Have to Be

Darkness Is Consumed By Light

Let’s Make Life Beautiful

 

Advertisements

Enhance Memory By 75% Make Your Brain Faster And Recover Lost Vision With These Ingredients! – Wellnesscom

Who couldn’t use a little memory boost from time to time? We all lead stressful lives these days, which can affect us in many ways. Our bodies naturally release inflammatory cytokines when we are stressed (1). These chemicals tell your immune system to essentially kick it up a notch—the fight or flight response. They put […]

Source: Enhance Memory By 75% Make Your Brain Faster And Recover Lost Vision With These Ingredients! – Wellnesscom

Check out more

Fixated on Food

Life Can Be Complicated, But It Doesn’t Have to Be

Three Things to do Before Bed to Give You Energy

YouTube- Poison- “Nothing But A Good Time”

What Doesn’t Kill Us Makes Us Stronger

Are you an extrovert or an introvert? If you said introvert you may want to read this article. It can help you be a little more social and help deal with the stress.

Extovert or Introvert

Parents Children Need To Learn From The Lesson Of Life

Parents Let Your Children Fail

All children learn about life. I know life can be hard growing up. One issue I had is I always got bailed out by my mother or my sister. When I hit my teen years I learned I needed to figure things out to be proud of it. I can thank my pastor for that.

2e1ax_content_entry_boys-playing-soccer-121116

I played basketball, soccer, and baseball when I was in school. I had so many fails, but I got up and learned how to do better. I learned myself by improving what I failed at and I improved with others by listening to advice. I definitely learned that one person is never always right. Listen to people around you and then make your own decision. This is part of a child’s independence from their parents. We do make bad decisions, but we always have our parents to go back to to talk to about our mistakes allowing us to improve in life.

I really liked this article. So please go ahead and click the link, the heading, above. If you enjoy this let me know why. Also please share to help others in the challenges of life.

Check out more

A Life’s Story: Childhood, Pier Pressure, and Right and Wrong Decisions

Life Can Be Complicated, But it Doesn’t Have to Be

What Should Not Be Said or Done When Parents and Adult Children Live Together

The Eagles: Hotel California

 

How Using The Power of Positivity Actually Changes the World Around You – Wellnesscom

Are you the prophet of self-doom? Or do you let it slide and carry on regardless? Charles R. Swindoll said, “Life is 10% of what happens to you and 90% how you react to it.” If we focus on a negative outcome in something in a negative fashion, you will subconsciously be asking for more […]

 

Their is a lot of negativity in life. Trust me I know it. I read this and need to pass it on. We all need to remain positive, because without positive attitude everything will start to dwindle.

When we get negative things tend to go wrong even more. That is because our mind believes nothing good will happen. We have less motivation on daily task. I will give an example… When I am in a positive mood I tend to come home and do a little cleaning, cook dinner, and even pay bills when needed. Although when I have a bad day and in a negative mood all I do is sit in front of the TV, get on Facebook, and have a easy dinner. You may be wondering how this applies to you? Well think what you do after a good day and a bad day. We are all different some drink, some listen to heavy rock, some just need alone time. Whatever you do on a bad day can get a lot worse if you get trickling down into depression. I have learned from my life challenges that we need to stay positive, especially how we talk around other people. A challenge for you and everyone is to eliminate all negative words and thoughts. The more positive you are the more positive the people around you will be.

Source: How Using The Power of Positivity Actually Changes the World Around You – Wellnesscom

Check out more

Don’t Lose Your Passion

Complaining About A Problem Without Proposing A Solution Is Called Whining

Battles Uphill And Downhill In A Day, But Leveling Out At The End

Saban’s Mighty Morphin Power Rangers Comes Spring 2017