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How Using The Power of Positivity Actually Changes the World Around You – Wellnesscom

Are you the prophet of self-doom? Or do you let it slide and carry on regardless? Charles R. Swindoll said, “Life is 10% of what happens to you and 90% how you react to it.” If we focus on a negative outcome in something in a negative fashion, you will subconsciously be asking for more […]

 

Their is a lot of negativity in life. Trust me I know it. I read this and need to pass it on. We all need to remain positive, because without positive attitude everything will start to dwindle.

When we get negative things tend to go wrong even more. That is because our mind believes nothing good will happen. We have less motivation on daily task. I will give an example… When I am in a positive mood I tend to come home and do a little cleaning, cook dinner, and even pay bills when needed. Although when I have a bad day and in a negative mood all I do is sit in front of the TV, get on Facebook, and have a easy dinner. You may be wondering how this applies to you? Well think what you do after a good day and a bad day. We are all different some drink, some listen to heavy rock, some just need alone time. Whatever you do on a bad day can get a lot worse if you get trickling down into depression. I have learned from my life challenges that we need to stay positive, especially how we talk around other people. A challenge for you and everyone is to eliminate all negative words and thoughts. The more positive you are the more positive the people around you will be.

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Complaining About A Problem Without Proposing A Solution Is Called Whining

When I was a child I would complain over the smallest thing. I complained about food I didn’t want on the table, not being able to go outside because of rain, and my sister’s annoying pets. As an adult I realize that life is short and it is better to be happy than it is to complain all the time. But is there a way to complain without being negative? Well here is some advice I have learned in the last 20 years.

Why Should I Not Be Able To Complain About What I Do Not Like

152664fcc69f77434db1f2208ef37594I know there are many reasons why people complain everyday. I do it too. We all get frustrated from work, life, and family and then we let it bottle up inside then eventually we have to burst. I have been guilty of this for years and I am trying to change.I learned about four years ago that negative “vibe” can cause neurological damage. Here are just a few reasons why we all need to be nice to each other.

Programing Your Brain

You may not think so but we are like a computer. Just think a moment your parents and their parents had fun playing outside with sticks and rocks, right. We had fun with video games, computers, cell phones, technology. The first video game you picked up does not matter if it was Atari, Nintendo, Playstation, or Xbox you were being programed that this was the way to please your brain.

You synapses fires each time you have a thought. It registers throughout your brain. The more you do it the easier it becomes for your brain to process it. A little like upgrading. Pretty soon your your synapses gets so close it becomes a habit to you. What can this do to you?

This can be good and bad. Let’s go back to the video game. They make you happy, but you develop a habit not to play them constantly everyday. You play for an hour and spend the rest of your day with family, doing chores, paying bills, and even dishes. Well your brain will develop this as a good thing and it will be for making you happy and being productive.

What Goes Around Comes Around

439a68a1f4503866d779a43343257336My life has changed so many times it has been confusing, on top of that my changes in emotions. I use to be a manager at a fast food restaurant. There were good days and bad days. One day I made a connection that when I was around my Assistant Manager I was in a bad mood. The reason being she was always negative and I was positive. When I realized this I started looking for another job.

The point is when one is negative it causes bad moodiness, negative thoughts, and depression among people that they are around. If you are a positive thinker and hang around negative thinkers do not do it. You will not help them they will hurt you.

Stress The Big Hardship On Your Body

Stress is not good for your mind nor your body. I have had a lot of stress in my life and even been through mental therapy a few times. One thing I have learned is that stress cause physical problems like obesity, increase risk of heart disease,  high blood pressure, lower the function of your immune system, and a whole lot more. When I learned this I decided to focus on positive things in my life and eliminate negative things. Not all problems have been solved yet, but I am in progress and that is the positive side.

Problem + Idea = Solution

poster-whine-complainIf you made an assumption I like mathematics you are right. Everyday we have problems, but who adds an idea to the problem? If there is no idea then there is no solution. It is that simple. Why start an argument because you do not like something a family member, friend, or roommate did? Offer an idea. This also places you in a positive position because you are being giving and compromising. Now do not be giving alternatives. I will give you an example. You and your roommate are going to a movie. You both are determined to see the movie you want, but only one has the money. Instead of getting into an argument about what movie you are going to see because you are the one paying setup a solution. The problem difference in movies and pay week, the idea compromise, and the solution arrange an agreement that when a roommate gets paid they decide the movie to watch and pay for the tickets. No arguing allowed if you do not like the movie just do not go.

You may not think that this is a good solution, but when it comes to mathematics there can be many variables. Things can change so we need to let the friend know ahead of time. Also you hear at the last moment do not get mad assume that they found out at the last moment too. Getting mad over something that happens in someone else’s life because you cannot go to the movies is selfish. Do onto others as you would have them do unto you.

 

Luke 6:27-36

27“But to you who are listening I say: Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, 28 bless those who curse you, pray for those who mistreat you. 29 If someone slaps you on one cheek, turn to them the other also. If someone takes your coat, do not withhold your shirt from them. 30 Give to everyone who asks you, and if anyone takes what belongs to you, do not demand it back. 31 Do to others as you would have them do to you.

32“If you love those who love you, what credit is that to you? Even sinners love those who love them. 33 And if you do good to those who are good to you, what credit is that to you? Even sinners do that. 34 And if you lend to those from whom you expect repayment, what credit is that to you? Even sinners lend to sinners, expecting to be repaid in full. 35 But love your enemies, do good to them, and lend to them without expecting to get anything back. Then your reward will be great, and you will be children of the Most High, because he is kind to the ungrateful and wicked. 36 Be merciful, just as your Father is merciful.

 


References

Neurological. (n.d.) In Dictionary.com. Retrived from http://www.dictionary.com/browse/neurological 

J Stillman. (February 29th, 2016) Complaining is terrible for you, according to science. Retrived from http://www.inc.com/jessica-stillman/complaining-rewires-your-brain-for-negativity-science-says.html 

Luke said, “But I say to you who hear, love your enemies, do good to those who hate you,” (New International Version,  Luke 6:27-36

 

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Police: Hanover mom put kids, 3 and 5, in Corvette trunk

A York County mother is facing charges after police said she was caught riding around town with her children, ages 3 and 5, in the trunk of a red Corvette.

I wonder why is she smiling? Is she crazy?

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We Need To Move On

We all have reasons to stay in our comfortable spot in life. What we all need to do is move forward in life. Some people may feel like they are needed, afraid, or held back; but they need to take the courage to move on in life.

when life gets busyI have had a lot of struggles when I was in high school. I am not going into this here, but if you want to find out click here. When I graduated I just wanted to get out of the house and out of town, so I went to college in the capitol of PA, Harrisburg. I had no idea about life at this time. I did not know about paying bills, saving money, going shopping, saving money, and more. I learned a lot quick! Working two jobs and going to college was not that great. I had fun chilling with my friend after work and downing a few beers. The problem was I kept running out of money and food.

What did I do to get money and food then? Well I will tell you! I called mom. 😦 Yes mom of all people in the World. The big problem from this was I did not know where she got the money. I found out years later she got it from a line of credit. On a technicality she wasn’t giving me money she was giving me parts of her credit. When I found this out I stopped calling for financial help.

I started thinking of a career. I had two jobs at the time so I went with the job I liked and I was assisting managers with their job. I talked to the Assistant Manager that I helped all the time about getting promoted to manager. He agreed I should and he looked into it. One of his requirements was to train a new shift manager. So he chose me as his trainee. It was taking two years to get me trained and time was getting hard. I decided to move home and start over fresh. Wish I could redo that day over.

Since then I have been trying to go forward. I attempted to start a business, was hired as crew to get promoted to manager, went to college on-line, and got a job in a factory making more then I did in fast food. It did not matter what I did every few years I hit bottom. After running my business and going to college on-line I have had a revelation. I do not live my own life. I need to accept responsibility for what I do. I need to make my own choices. I had been letting my mother and step-father make decisions for me to reduce stress, but it had increased stress. They did not make choices the way I would have decided. This does not mean they were wrong or I was wrong, it means when a decision is made for your life it needs to matter to you.

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I had a job at a pharmaceutical company that make medical stoppers. I was weigh up and packing off the medical stoppers. I worked nights, 12 hour shifts. It helped me graduate college and start a business. What went wrong is I had something like a stroke and was suffering memory loss and continue to have short-term memory issues. A few months after I went back to work I forgot to do a procedure. I was caught on camera and terminated. I informed them I was having memory problems and wanted to be retrained, just in case, the refused. It was even recommended by my neurologist. They refused my unemployment, but I eventually won after they won in the hearing I won on the final appeal. Although that didn’t matter I was still really depressed and considered taking my own life. The only thing that saved me was Faith in God. I knew He had a purpose.

The whole time I was unemployed my mother was complaining about me going to find a job, paying bills, how I was going to live, and much more negative statements. I have lost jobs in the past and have gotten depressed, but recovered within a week. This was not happening with all the negative feed I was getting. I needed help to think positive again. I went to see a therapist. No not a shrink! She is a person you can talk to about the problems you have everyday and she listens, offers suggestion, and gives advise. The best part she does expect me to take her advice, she just offers it. We all need a friend or family that listens and makes suggestions, but my family does not do that.

Since it seems that everything gets more complicated as the years move on I am going to cut the people off that adds the stress to me. I do want to consider to add them back as time moves on and the desire to see them returns. As of right now if I was the only person left on this World I would be happy. I know I would get lonely eventually so that is not what I want. I just need separation from my parents and where I grew up. I need to move my life forward and make my own decisions. Whomever reads this take a little advice. If you have a goal that you can reasonably succeed at then go for it, Do not argue over opinions, and if you cannot say something positive then do not say anything at all. Do not be a fool, do not be negative, and be realistic about achieving. This is what I have learned in the last 10 years of my life.

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